Are we really celebrating Women's Day..

It’s not been long, an incident which I came across shock me… it really shook me mentally and emotionally..

He is my educated friend, a dentist, living in metro city (I won’t be disclosing his name and city), who is still in the cover of traditional values and traditions. Few months ago he got married to a beautiful graduate girl from the same town. It was an arranged marriage with the female from the same caste.

All was going very well in the courtship period. Both of them loved each other and obviously eagerly waiting to spend their lives together. As all traditional marriages even his was very grand and lots of happiness around. Both of them taking vows of spending life with each other in thick n thin times of life etc…

But few days after the marriage, one could notice the tense in the relationship between them. His wife was looking depressed and one could make out that something was terribly wrong in their relationship. Doctor who used to love her so much had suddenly started doubting her. Faith, which is the base of every relationship, was not to be found.

One day we both were sitting together, which we used to often, before his marriage and share about everything what was going in our lives. We never indulge ourselves in each other’s personal life much, probably that was the reason why we used to carry along with each other very well.

This time I wanted to know from him what was wrong between him and his wife. With great guts I asked him “I suppose you are healthy relation with your wife.” “Any doubts, n why are u asking me this” he said.

“Well, I am seeing the tense on Bhabhi’s face and also somewhere I feel something is going wrong between you two..” I said

“Na, nothing wrong.. I don’t know why u feel so” he said, his eyes were meeting me and I was sure he was lying to me.

“But still if u would like to share I am open for it, though I don’t have rights but still” I said.

There was silence between us for 5 minutes. “She was not virgin” he said in low and sad voice.

“What… what made you say so” I asked.

“You know it very well, physically what happens to female” he said.

“What..??” I asked innocently

“Oh come on, you are not a child, you know it very well” he said

“I seriously don’t know, there are many things which happened physically, be specific” I said

“I could not notice any blood traces” he said

“So..??” I asked.

“So…!!! This proves she has had pre marital sex and enjoying it” he said

I was surprised and shocked “this does not reach to any conclusion, might be later on it might have happened or might be for some other reason the hymen might have been broken..”

“No… even after having sex with her for several times I could not notice any blood traces..” he said

“And you doubt her, don’t you have faith in her. Again even if she would had, what’s the problem. She is now your wife.. and again you are a doctor you know several reasons when hymen breaks and still youuu…” I said

“She says she is virgin and I was the first man to touch her, but still….” he said..

“But still what….” I asked

Well the debated went on…. Somehow he has accepted her and now after several months I can see smiles on their face.

But here I would like to question you all guys, just because we don’t have any physical proof to show our virginity why we question our partners. It’s really sad that this petty thing becomes the proof of any girl’s virginity. We celebrate women’s day for one day and other day we want to show our superiority… Why…???

Pls read this article too

http://in.news.yahoo.com/hindustantimes/20080304/r_t_ht_nl_general/tnl-small-towns-in-virginity-repair-rush-7244580_1.html